Jessie didn’t set out to become a voice for survivors. But one courageous story—shared by someone she barely knew—changed everything.
“She was younger than me, braver than me,” Jessie said. “She spoke up about her experience with someone I had also been hurt by. It was terrifying, but it also lit a fire in me. I knew I had to act.”
That act began with a phone call. Jessie dialed the Heartly House hotline not knowing exactly what she needed—only that she was in need. That single moment of bravery led her to a place that offered more than just safety. It offered a path forward.
For nearly five decades, Heartly House has served as a vital resource in Frederick County for survivors of intimate partner violence, sexual assault, and child abuse. It’s often thought of as just a shelter—but as Executive Director Niki Thrash explains, it’s so much more.
“There is a lot of complexity in the work we do,” she said. “We provide legal support, therapy, prevention services, and safe housing for people of all genders and ages. Every time we do an intake, every time we listen—we may be preventing a tragedy. We’re not just reacting. We’re changing lives.”
Heartly House was a turning point for Jessie. The staff didn’t just listen—they saw her. They believed her. And in the weeks and months that followed, they helped her rediscover the parts of herself she thought she’d lost.
“I was in a really dark place,” Jessie said. “I didn’t love myself. I didn’t feel like myself. But Heartly House helped me reconnect with who I really am. They didn’t just give me support—they gave me a community.”
Today, Jessie is a working artist and an advocate, using her experience to educate others and let fellow survivors know they are not alone. As part of Heartly House’s Speakers Bureau, she shares her story with honesty, courage, and purpose. She’s proof that healing isn’t only possible—it’s powerful.
“Because of Heartly House, I’m still here,” Jessie said. “I’m thriving. I’ve found my voice, and I’m using it.”
For years, the Community Foundation has helped ensure Heartly House has the flexible funding it needs to adapt, grow, and meet survivors where they are—no matter the uncertainty in federal or state funding. Through various charitable funds, in fiscal year 2025 the Community Foundation provided more than $75,000 in grant support to Heartly House.
“When people know they have a safe place to go, it creates ripple effects,” said Niki. “Safer homes, stronger neighborhoods, healthier children. It’s not just about ending violence—it’s about building a better community.”
Jessie is living proof. Her story isn’t one of tragedy—it’s one of courage, connection, and hope. And thanks to Heartly House, she’s writing her own future. One of resilience, joy, and strength.
This article was featured in the Community Foundation’s fiscal year 2025 Annual Report.